To the Me Who Was So Damn Scared (And to the You Who Still Is)

Stop Waiting for Permission

If I could sit across from the younger me—the one hiding behind fear, perfection, and people-pleasing—I’d say:

They’re not paying your bills.
They’re not raising your babies.
They’re not living your life.

So why are their opinions dictating your dreams?

You don’t need anyone’s validation to go after what’s burning in your heart. You don’t need approval to speak your truth, post your vision, or build your brand.

Affirmation: “I do not need permission to rise.”

What Staying Hidden Is Really Costing You

I get it. I’ve been there. The fear of judgment is loud.
You’re scared they’ll roll their eyes…
Whisper behind your back…
Laugh when you launch.

But queen—staying small costs more than being seen ever will.

It’s costing you:

• Your income

• Your peace

• Your impact

And let’s be honest—your kids are watching. Watching how you silence your dreams to keep others comfortable.

Affirmation: “I refuse to shrink for comfort—I was built to lead.”

How I Stopped Shrinking and Started Building

I created The BOSS MOM CODE because I was done.
Done letting fear call the shots.
Done giving judgment the steering wheel.
Done shrinking for people who never even saw my potential.

And now? I lead. I show up—even when I’m scared.
Even when it’s messy. Even when no one claps.

You don’t need confidence to start.
You need a decision.

Affirmation: “I show up even when I’m scared.”

🔥 This Is Your ENOUGH Moment

If your heart’s pounding right now, good.
If you feel seen, even better.
This is your ENOUGH moment.

✨ Enough hiding.
✨ Enough waiting.
✨ Enough shrinking.

It’s time to rise. Your purpose isn’t going to wait.
And neither should you.

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📝 Journal: “Where am I still shrinking, and what would change if I finally chose myself?”

✨ Before You Go...

You were never meant to fit in.
You were born to lead.

So stop doubting your power, stop silencing your story, and remember:

You’re not too much. You’re just getting started.

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Michelle is a purpose-driven entrepreneur, single mom, and creator of The BOSS MOM CODE. Through her blog, Michelle On Purpose Talks, and podcast, Michelle On Purpose, she empowers women—especially moms—to rise boldly, rewrite their stories, and build legacy-driven lives and businesses. With a voice that’s raw, real, and deeply rooted in lived experience, Michelle shares mindset shifts, income strategies, and the truth behind healing and hustle. Her mission is simple but powerful: to help women stop playing small and start showing up on purpose.